Urgent vs Important

Nothing will realign one's priorities like losing a loved one. Suddenly, the importance of a moment gains crystal clarity in it's significance. Many things are urgent. Only a few things are important.

It's easy to lose sight of that again, in the fog of grieving. We tend to forget that it's important to take care of ourselves, to treasure the moments with people and pets we love. We get caught up in taking care of the urgent, at the expense of the important. 

Grief has some vital lessons to teach us. We must be careful not to cast them aside.

Artwork by Mary Lee Robinson
About the Artist

Mary Lee Robinson was widowed suddenly in 2013 and found herself totally unprepared for what was to come. In a new state for a mere 11 months when her husband died, there were few supportive friends or family around. She set about creating some, and started a social club for widows and widowers in her community. Within a year, it had grown to 170 members. That told her quite a lot about an unmet need. She gathered 25 widows and widowers to write a book to share their stories, and the surprises, good and bad, that they all encountered as members of the club nobody wants to join. It is her hope, and that of the other storytellers, that the books help prepare and educate.  Mary Lee lives in the Low Country of South Carolina, caring for her Mom and is a native of Towson, MD, just outside of Baltimore. Her constant companions are her dachshund and rottweiler dogs. Mary Lee Robinson is the author of The Widow or Widower Next Door and 5 of the Grief Diaries series books, all of which are available right here in The Grief Toolbox in her marketplace https://shop.thegrieftoolbox.com/category/store/mary-lee-robinson. You can find more of her work on her Widowlution blog, practical tips for healing and living, at www.widowlution.com and on her Facebook page for widows at The Widow or Widower Next Door.