There is so much attention and support paid to a person when they experience the trauma of the death of a loved one. Friends and family rally around. They lend a shoulder to lean on; they send food. Navigating emotions, grief, and sadness is much easier when you have a strong support system. But what happens later?The part of loss that we don't hear about happens months, even years down the road when your life changes and the person you loved is not there to share it with you.