We are a Griefshare group and follow the guidelines that are recommended by Griefshare.org. There are 13 Christian based videos that we watch, with a special additional one on Loss of a Spouse.  The facilitator is a licensed counselor who has led 3 consecutive groups and emphasizes the  support and love that is needed during this painful time.  The environment is designed to be a safe place where the grieving person may express candidly what they're feeling and experiencing.  Confidentiality and Safety from being met with well intended advice that isn't helpful are emphasized.